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Why Some Women Remain Single
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Have you ever come across that woman who just seems like a perfect catch, thru and thru? She’s smart. She’s cool. She’s successful. She’s attractive.
Or so it all seems.
Thing is she’s single and nobody can figure out why. She can’t seem to find a man who can quite match her level of yokedness. Now from the outside looking in it’s pretty simple: she’s single because men are intimidated by her.
Or not.
In the realm of relationship myths, the “intimidated man” ranks up there with the 8-hour marathon sessions and zebra-looking unicorns. You see, it’s not that it doesn’t exist, its just that it really ain’t as common as you may think. And how is this so?
Simple.
It’s not that we’re all intimidated…we just don’t like you.
Egads!
Yes, it just may be you.
Since this site is about upliftment (both breast and spirit) and education, allow me to share some behaviors that don’t necessarily intimidate us men, we just really don’t care for them.
Hell, I’m trying to ensure the survival of the species here.
Me, Wu-Tang, and 3-out-of-4 dentists are for the children.
(By the way, I do realize that some men ARE indeed intimidated. Those men are p*ssies. Thank you.)
1) The know it all
We’re glad that you’re smart and went to college, really we are. However, we usually did too. Unless we’re specifically talking about the one facet of your life you spent the last 8 years devoting your life too, it’s quite possible that we know something too. In which case, you should concede the fact that it’s possible for somebody else to know something too. We know you probably have daddy issues and have automatic defense mechanisms, however, if you keep it up, you won’t have any daughters to pass those daddy issues on to because no man wants to date a woman who’s sole purpose in life is to always be right. In short, shut the f*ck up, have a Coke, and smile. You knowing it all isn’t intimidating, its annoying. We’d much rather date a woman who knows that she doesn’t know it all, Confucius. You can go fight with the mirror.
2) The overly-independent woman
This woman is the one who cannot let any vulnerabilities show whatsoever. It’s not that she won’t let you let her be a woman, its that she must let you know that she doesn’t need you to do anything for her. Yes you’re an independent woman. Whoopty damn do. Being independent is trendy now anyway. How do I know this? Ne-yo wrote a song about it. You don’t get points for being a grown-up. Your independence isn’t intimidating, your inability to recognize that it actually does take two to tango is just annoying. Lucky for you, you’ll be doing the same ole two-step for years to come anyway. With a Solo cup in your hands while you play Uno.
3) The aggressive-yet-insecure chick
This is the woman who drives me the most insane and who I’d like to stab with a starfish and two clownfish. Look, I realize that you were raised strong and you feel that people who don’t get you are beneath you, but the truth is, you’re probably not cute enough to be the a**hole that you are anyway. Sizing men up and dismissing them immediately and then intentionally trying to let them know that they don’t measure up to the man they should be isn’t necessarily intimidating…it’s more the kind of thing that makes us want to stab you. And stabbing you is problematic because it puts another Black man in jail which leaves one less Black man for you to meet thereby meaning more competition for you which indirectly means you’ll have the dry cooch for life. So stop it. If dude isn’t your cup of tea, leave it at that. Besides you probably give bad head anyway.
Take this knowledge and do with it what you may, but learn. And if you know women who are causing their own singleness, then share.
Sharing is caring.
Thank you and good night